Sunday, January 2, 2011

My New Year Resolution - I won’t PRAY ever again!

Yes I am an Aasthik, I do believe in God but enough is enough. I have been stupid enough, have prayed enough, but no more. I won’t pray ever gain – not in the way PRAYER is carried out today. Why? Simply because that’s not what prayer is. Prayer is not bargaining – “God if I pass I’ll offer a प्रसाद [prasad] of a kilogram of sweets”. Neither it is begging – “Oh Lord! I haven’t prepared enough, but please get me this job!”

I won’t pray again to bargain and neither to beg. But I WILL PRAY the way it is supposed to be done. It’s a pity that it took me 21 years to understand what prayer really is. It’s not reciting the memorized verses, it’s not putting flowers on the deity, it’s not going round the deity for 3 times, it’s not lighting candles. These are practices followed by people, but is this prayer – NO. Not at all.

So the question is – ‘What is Prayer?’. Its simple – prayer is simply talking to GOD. It’s asking for help but its neither bargaining nor begging. What could you possibly offer him that he doesn’t own already? Do you think he wants a kilogram of sweets? I don’t think so. All that interests Him are your love and feelings.

When you pray, do you merely recite the memorized lines or do you really mean them? Do you feel the feelings of your prayer? Think about it. I am not saying that आरती [Aarti] or चालीसा [Chaalisaa] or नमाज़ [Namaaz] are not part of the prayer. You know I can’t say that, because they are part of the prayer – but they are not prayer. A prayer is useless unless you say it with the feelings. There is no point in reciting the verses and reading ‘Namaaz’ if all you are thinking during the course of your prayer is – ‘I have to finish off this project. How will I manage to get a decent job? I have to attend that function!’.

You need to have that feeling inside you. Every word you utter should come from your heart and not just your vocal chord. But even this is not enough. Every time you pray – you should be thanking GOD, for everything you have - your family, your friends, your Job. Even when you loose it all, you should thank him – for you are still alive! Since you are alive, you still have the chance to regain all you’ve lost. So prayer is thanking. Its being grateful to GOD. Not that he needs your thanks – its just that you owe him a lot you can never ever repay but the least you can do is to thank Him!

Second thing to understand is prayer is a tool cultivate humbleness. I found that most of the Sanskrit verses used in Hindu Scriptures, especially prayer contains two words – “ॐ”[AUM or OM] and “नमः” [Namah]. नमः  exists in many forms like “नमामि”, “नमो”, “नमोस्तुते”! Ever wondered what ‘नमः’ means? It comes from the root word ‘नम’ which means to bow. विनम्र means Humble, नमन beings to bow!  Its a mark of respect. It tells us to be humble. How? We only bow to powerful people, so every time you pray – you say – ‘I bow to thee’ which means irrespective of your position and power, you know that there is a Supreme
Power, the master of all masters and you respect Him.

So Prayer = Talking + Feelings + Thanking + Being Humble + (some things I’ll come to know in future, as I Grow!).


  1. nice one...........keep going.
    May God bless you with positive attitude n show u the rt path to fulfill ur dreams.

  2. @Amritesh
    Thank you very much my dear friend.
    Hope this year brings lots of Joys to all of us and a nice 2nd placement round :)